
I have a great affinity for the symbolism of a safe harbor, a place to mindfully reflect on our emotional, physical and cognitive responses to stressful life events. As a partner in your healing journey, I will always strive to ensure that our therapeutic work together is a calm and mindful harbor; a place to gather the resources and tools that you need when you encounter turbulent waters and strong waves of emotion that threaten your sense of safety in the world. In many ways, I deeply understand the ebbs and flows of healing from trauma. This understanding comes from an experiential base in my personal life in addition to classical academic training.
Journey Through Trauma-Informed Healing: A Story of Experience, Resilience, and Compassion
I am grateful for the experiences I have earned from prestigious Universities and applied clinical work in hospitals, college campuses, forensic settings, and private practice for over two decades. In the early 2000’s, I began my academic training as a doctoral student of Clinical Psychology in Palo Alto, California. As a member of several prestigious clinical research teams at Stanford University, I focused on academic research and evidence-based practices such as Cognitive Behavioral Therapy and Dialectical Behavior Therapy. I also had the privilege to attend conferences and publish academic journal articles. In the decades that followed, my experiential understanding of trauma deepened my awareness of the cumulative stress of working in traumatizing environments. Most recently, I was deployed to the Camp Fire in Paradise, California, as a first responder to provide psychological first aid to survivors of California’s most devastating wildfire in 2018. While that experience was incredibly rewarding and the state of California honored me with the Medal of Valor, I also came away from that time in my life with a much deeper understanding of the somatic nature of trauma and I became more dedicated to learn about more specific trauma-informed practices when the others fell short in healing my own traumatized psyche.
Exposure to trauma is no longer limited to the classic “Big T” traumas such as exposure to the atrocities of war, natural disasters, sexual assault, and other life-threatening events. Today, the literature has taught us that the “Little t” traumas also adversely impact us just as much and can be equally harmful to our psyche. The cumulation of persistent threats to our self-esteem and self-worth often lead to deep-rooted feelings of inadequacy and self-doubt. Common examples of these experiences are exposure to racism, sexism, homophobia, bullying, and other chronic exposures to systemic atrocities in our daily lives. Whether they are “big or small” traumas, these life-threatening events disrupt of sense of safety and often leave us feeling lost and alone. Those life-changing events can create a deep imprint and lasting impact on an individual’s mental health and wellbeing. Like a ship lost at sea, the deep waters of trauma can feel overpowering and threatening to our very existence. However, the beacon of light that comes from a heart and mind rooted in mindful compassion can guide you back to your real Self. I have trained in new emerging fields of somatic (mind/body) psychology and trauma-informed interventions such as EMDR, IFS, and polyvagal theory. It is my mission in life to bring healing to those of us who have experienced chronic stress and trauma and find tools that bring peace and equilibrium to our nervous system. I am truly grateful that you have visited my Mindful Harbor and I hope you stay to learn more.
IFS

Internal Family Systems (IFS) is an evidence-based, trauma-informed therapy modality. IFS is a transformative model of psychotherapy that conceives of every human being as a system of protective and wounded inner parts led by a core Self, also known as Self-energy. IFS conceives of the mind as a system that is naturally composed of multiple parts and that is a good thing. Just like members of a family, inner parts are forced from their natural, valuable states into extreme roles within us when we encounter traumatic events and situations that overwhelm our nervous system. Self-energy is in everyone. It can’t be damaged. It knows how to heal.
EMDR

EMDR (Eye Movement Desensitization and Reprocessing) is a psychotherapy that enables people to heal from the symptoms and emotional distress that are the result of disturbing life experiences. Repeated studies show that by using EMDR therapy people can experience the benefits of psychotherapy that once took years to make a difference. It is widely assumed that severe emotional pain requires a long time to heal.
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